What if everyone was happy being an oompa-loompa?

by Ideapharmer on May 17, 2010

My daughter is a self proclaimed Drama Queen. I know this intimately because all of her text messages signed off telling me so for months.

I’m pretty sure that she came up with this term because she loves to act and sing. Her mother and I also know that the other definition applies at times too :)

Regardless of what it means to her or us, this past Spring she auditioned for a part in the local school’s play Willy Wonka. Despite callbacks for several lead roles, she came home post cast assignments being announced and angrily told us “I’m a stinking oompa-loompa!”

We did what parents do and explained that getting in the play was more important than the part itself. We also told her that the oompa-loompas stole the show.

I explained that I had first seen the movie almost 40 years ago and remembered nothing more than the oompa-loompas. I thought oompa-loompas rocked!

She wasn’t buying it and grudgingly went to rehearsals and got ready for the big show. As time got closer to the play itself, her attitude slowly changed. The oompa-loompas “are cool” and “everyone laughs and claps when we rehearse” became more common comments than the frustrations.

Sure enough despite a lot of talented performances, the oompa-loompas stole the show. And while she still would have liked to have played a lead, “being an oompa-loompa was pretty cool.”

Looking back, I wish she had accepted the possibilities at the beginning vs. realizing the benefits of what she ultimately “had” over time.

To be fair here, she’s only 11. She has to learn the “make the most of it” lesson on her own and is arguably much too young to understand it even now.

Let’s be really honest. Many people, regardless of age, never accept the importance of living and working happily with what they have. It’s apparently easier for some to gripe about what they don’t. As a result, they lose opportunities along the way to enjoy the proverbial ride and discover and experience things in ways they didn’t expect.

I’m not going to stand on my blog soapbox and claim that I haven’t suffered from this type of attitude at times. I can, however, say that once again my daughter taught me a lesson.

Anyone out there ready to enjoy being an “oompa-loompa” every now and then? Please let me know…

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My son is holding out for an iPad

by Ideapharmer on May 4, 2010

One of my favorite away from work activities is playing with technology. I inherited this bizarre geeky love from my father and know that I’m passing it along to my kids.

My wife was in shock but I laughed out loud (LOL to you texters) when my 9-year old son said last week, “Mom – I’ve decided to skip on an iPod Touch and hold out for an iPad.”

And that is the point of this post. Almost everyone has seen the iPad. 1,000,000 have been purchased. But if you haven’t played with one, you haven’t seen the future of computers, gaming, entertainment and information sharing. You are missing out. Really.

For those of you out there looking at one for either work or home, here are 8 things that made me excited about the potential of the iPad:

  • Its size. At less than two pounds and about the width of a magazine, it can’t be beat
  • The screen. The screen is crisp and clear making it great for everything from reading a paper, spreadsheet, presentation or watching a game and playing a movie
  • Ability to work like a computer. With many of the apps available, you can do everything from word processing and spreadsheets to presentations (i.e. PowerPoint) right from an iPad
  • Social media. Every major social media tool has an iPad app, and most if not all others are in the works to provide one. You can do everything in social media including managing a blog from an iPad to instant messaging and chat
  • E-mail. The e-mail app has a great interface and makes reading documents and replying on the run very easy
  • News. All of those mobile news sites that were just too big to easily browse on a Smartphone are easily read on the iPad
  • Gaming. The games on the iPad are outstanding and utilize the motion controls familiar to those with an iPhone or iPod Touch
  • App Store. The App Store has long been considered a key part of Apple’s strength in the mobile device market. If you’ve heard that or experienced it, think of the App Store for the iPad as everything that was there on steroids. The iPad screen and processing speed have created a market for incredible programs that can do almost anything that you’d want

My son may not have known it, but I would have said the same thing. The iPad is truly revolutionary and has already made many of the things that I want and need to do both personally and professionally easier and more fun along the way. And for him and others, it is one heck of a cool toy.

Anyone out there care to share their own thoughts? Want my list of best iPad apps?

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Why not just go for it?

April 27, 2010

Last week I attended my youngest son’s baseball practice. One of the first of the year, I got there late but did get to watch for a few minutes. As I watched, I realized that he was playing at the wrong level. Don’t get me wrong. He’s not Derek Jeter, and I’m not the pushy [...]

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Thank you Brian Davis!

April 19, 2010

I’d like to take a moment to thank Brian Davis. In fact, I recommend that you do it too. Brian Davis? Yes, Brian Davis. If you’ve never heard of him, relax. Until late yesterday, I had never heard of him either. Brian Davis is a golfer on the PGA Tour. He’s an outstanding golfer by [...]

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Are you a shadow of your old self? Take a look back and see…

April 13, 2010

Did you used to do something that you were good at that you don’t anymore? Have you lost touch with some of your best friends from different eras in your life? If you answered yes to either of these questions (which I did yesterday), consider this the equivalent of the lesson my daughter helped me [...]

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Working like vacation is always tomorrow…

April 5, 2010

We broke the piggy bank and are officially on vacation right now. If you don’t use time delayed posting tools on your blog, they’re worth exploring. Getting ready for vacation at my house is always a mad rush. And while we always put ourselves through an intense pace, my wife clearly gets the toughest assignment. [...]

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One thing that can help with a fear of public speaking

March 29, 2010

“According to most studies, people’s number one fear is public speaking. Number two is death. Death is number two. Does that sound right? This means to the average person, if you go to a funeral, you’re better off in the casket than doing the eulogy.” – Jerry Seinfeld As a businessman, I know at least [...]

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5 things to make spring mean something at work

March 22, 2010

Spring is here and the celebrations have begun in and around my household. The Wii is officially getting dusty. The basketball hoop in our driveway has been moved back into its “proper” position in the driveway. Ghost in the Graveyard and Capture the Flag occupy the neighborhood for hours on end. And even if we [...]

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Pine cone lessons in incentive compensation

March 15, 2010

As a former pharmaceutical sales rep, I understand firsthand the impact of incentive compensation on performance. The promise of an award trip, a prize out of a catalog, or a few extra dollars in my pocket made working just a bit harder vs. hitting the beach an easy decision – most of the time. Yet [...]

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Anyone need a spoonful of sugar?

March 8, 2010

Inspiration often comes from the places you least expect. It can hit you out of nowhere. It can wake you up in the middle of the night or snap you out of a distracted trance during a meeting. Something just happens in those special moments and everything just comes together. You can even find 27.8MM [...]

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