My daughter is a self proclaimed Drama Queen. I know this intimately because all of her text messages signed off telling me so for months.
I’m pretty sure that she came up with this term because she loves to act and sing. Her mother and I also know that the other definition applies at times too
Regardless of what it means to her or us, this past Spring she auditioned for a part in the local school’s play Willy Wonka. Despite callbacks for several lead roles, she came home post cast assignments being announced and angrily told us “I’m a stinking oompa-loompa!”
We did what parents do and explained that getting in the play was more important than the part itself. We also told her that the oompa-loompas stole the show.
I explained that I had first seen the movie almost 40 years ago and remembered nothing more than the oompa-loompas. I thought oompa-loompas rocked!
She wasn’t buying it and grudgingly went to rehearsals and got ready for the big show. As time got closer to the play itself, her attitude slowly changed. The oompa-loompas “are cool” and “everyone laughs and claps when we rehearse” became more common comments than the frustrations.
Sure enough despite a lot of talented performances, the oompa-loompas stole the show. And while she still would have liked to have played a lead, “being an oompa-loompa was pretty cool.”
Looking back, I wish she had accepted the possibilities at the beginning vs. realizing the benefits of what she ultimately “had” over time.
To be fair here, she’s only 11. She has to learn the “make the most of it” lesson on her own and is arguably much too young to understand it even now.
Let’s be really honest. Many people, regardless of age, never accept the importance of living and working happily with what they have. It’s apparently easier for some to gripe about what they don’t. As a result, they lose opportunities along the way to enjoy the proverbial ride and discover and experience things in ways they didn’t expect.
I’m not going to stand on my blog soapbox and claim that I haven’t suffered from this type of attitude at times. I can, however, say that once again my daughter taught me a lesson.
Anyone out there ready to enjoy being an “oompa-loompa” every now and then? Please let me know…
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